Dating with a Single Woman

Before you can decide which woman you want to date (will be covered in the next part of this book so we’ll get there soon), you need to decide what you are looking for and expecting to get from the date.

When you begin dating, try to know what you want from your dating partner. All of us date for different reasons. Sometimes these reasons are unknown to our conscious mind. You need to seriously ask yourself what you want from your dating partner.

You need to understand what makes you tick so that you will ask the right woman out on a real date.

Maybe:

• You are an honest guy,
• You hold truthfulness in high esteem,
• You are a hard worker,
• You really despise laziness.

Do some serious thinking about yourself because the character traits that are important to you today are always going to be important to you.

Now, taking your in-depth understanding of yourself into consideration, you need to think about exactly what you expect to get from the dating process.

Important! If you only want to date because everybody else that you know is dating and you are feeling really left out and alone, that isn’t a good reason. You know yourself better than that. You have never done

anything just because others were doing it. There’s no point in starting to date just because others are dating.

Warning! If you only want to date for the purpose of satisfying your own biological urges and one-night-stands are going to be your thing, then at least practice safe sex. There’s no need for you to die young. You won’t like yourself much if you do date for that reason, however. You have always been a person who believed in honest relationships. You still do.

Dating for the purpose of finding a person who will share your joys and sorrows like a good friend is a pretty good reason to join the dating scene. Nobody wants

to face life alone. But you do need to be honest with your dating partner that friendship is your main objective. You don’t want to mislead a woman into thinking you are looking for a permanent commitment if you aren’t.

If you are dating so that you will have someone available to just adore you, faults and all like mom does, get a dog and save the poor woman a broken heart.

Having a beautiful woman on your arm just to impress your friends isn’t a good reason for dating. You can find other ways to impress your friends that won’t cause anybody to be hurt. Buy a sports car.

Remember that everybody wants something every time. The woman you date wants something… and you want something as well. Dating women who actually expect and want the same things out of a relationship that you want and expect will not only narrow your search it will also make your dating experiences much more enjoyable and rewarding.

Knowing exactly what you want brightens the possibility of getting it. Oh, and to dispel the “Ms. Perfect” myth while we’re at it:

Let’s go to Waiting to meet Ms.Perfect